This is another topic that is quite controversial and depends very much on social programming in the head. There are many stereotypes associated with it, which annoy me, so I decided to protest! Anyway, all my texts are one big manifesto. This topic was born from your emails because you asked if I think that sex on the first date will make a guy not think about a woman, that she is easy and will not be interested in her after all? Here is the answer. https://www.twitteraudit.com/viewgals
Do you prefer a date or sex?
Each of us has probably had dozens or even hundreds of dates in our lives and this is normal for him. Of course, there are some awesome lucky ones who didn't date because they quickly found a partner(s) or are simply not demanding. Dating involves meeting the opposite sex, talking, having fun together, having a relationship or having sex. This is how it was and will be. Sex on a first date is, was and will be very normal.
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Sex is also the driving force behind dating... We feel sex as a natural need such as eating or sleeping and this often drives us to just go out and date. Of course, emotional issues, not to be alone in life, love, are more important than sex, but it is the bigger driving force. We date someone because they are attracted to us, either visually or intellectually. SEKS is also related to this, because we can't turn on emotions yet.
Maybe a little infantile and a very obvious introduction, but you have to agree with it and realize it. People have emotional and sexual needs, that is why they meet and go on dates - also the first ones ;).
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Personally, I have met with a lot of opinions from women: "Sex on a first date? In life!". I would never in my life allow myself to make such a statement in a conscious way and I have never in my life heard anything like that from guys' mouths. Yes, there are some, but who cares? How many are there? 5%?:) However... I don't go on a date with the idea that "there will be sex". Come on, guys don't date with that kind of conviction. However, they do not rule out - if the atmosphere is so hot that they will fire each other up... he woman and his woman.
The rules are there to break them
Why is this such a sensitive topic? Well, because of the stereotypical thinking of women:
"I'm not easy. I have to meet someone first to go to bed with him".
"He's just about sex. I can't give him what he wants right away, because he won't have a challenge.
"I have rules! Sex only on a 5 or 10 date! It's too intimate.
Holy shit! This is all shit that's just sitting in your head. Naturally, it does not take the stereotype that every woman has it in her head, but the majority (let's say ¾). From here I greet all those women who do not think like this.
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Why so few women do not say to themselves: "I assume nothing. I don't rule anything out. Everything must depend on whether there are sparks. I won't refrain from something I feel like doing".
Don't make any fucking rules, for fuck's sake?! If you don't go to bed on a first date, it's only because you don't want / a guy doesn't turn you on / you don't turn you on a guy enough, but fucking not because you have rules and you keep yourself from enjoying the excitement!
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What am I getting at? As usual - do what you want to do and you see that the other side also wants to do what you want to do and... it is not burdened with any emotional shit in your head. Why can't you approach this? Wouldn't life be more beautiful?
Sex connects, but does not create a lasting bond
The other way around, so don't think you're gonna stop the guy and build a relationship through sex on your first date. There is no such possibility - it is in you that sex creates a bond, then you give out more oxytocin. A guy's bond and attachment creates something other than sex (and in part, it certainly does), so don't ever treat the bed as a way to attract a guy to yourself.
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