Friday, November 13, 2020

Sex on the first date


This is another topic that is quite controversial and depends very much on social programming in the head. There are many stereotypes associated with it, which annoy me, so I decided to protest! Anyway, all my texts are one big manifesto. This topic was born from your emails because you asked if I think that sex on the first date will make a guy not think about a woman, that she is easy and will not be interested in her after all? Here is the answer. https://www.twitteraudit.com/viewgals

  Do you prefer a date or sex?  

 Each of us has probably had dozens or even hundreds of dates in our lives and this is normal for him. Of course, there are some awesome lucky ones who didn't date because they quickly found a partner(s) or are simply not demanding. Dating involves meeting the opposite sex, talking, having fun together, having a relationship or having sex. This is how it was and will be. Sex on a first date is, was and will be very normal.
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Sex is also the driving force behind dating... We feel sex as a natural need such as eating or sleeping and this often drives us to just go out and date. Of course, emotional issues, not to be alone in life, love, are more important than sex, but it is the bigger driving force. We date someone because they are attracted to us, either visually or intellectually. SEKS is also related to this, because we can't turn on emotions yet.

Maybe a little infantile and a very obvious introduction, but you have to agree with it and realize it. People have emotional and sexual needs, that is why they meet and go on dates - also the first ones ;).
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Personally, I have met with a lot of opinions from women: "Sex on a first date? In life!". I would never in my life allow myself to make such a statement in a conscious way and I have never in my life heard anything like that from guys' mouths. Yes, there are some, but who cares? How many are there? 5%?:) However... I don't go on a date with the idea that "there will be sex". Come on, guys don't date with that kind of conviction. However, they do not rule out - if the atmosphere is so hot that they will fire each other up... he woman and his woman.

The rules are there to break them  

 Why is this such a sensitive topic? Well, because of the stereotypical thinking of women:

    "I'm not easy. I have to meet someone first to go to bed with him".
    "He's just about sex. I can't give him what he wants right away, because he won't have a challenge.
    "I have rules! Sex only on a 5 or 10 date! It's too intimate.

Holy shit! This is all shit that's just sitting in your head. Naturally, it does not take the stereotype that every woman has it in her head, but the majority (let's say ¾). From here I greet all those women who do not think like this.
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Why so few women do not say to themselves: "I assume nothing. I don't rule anything out. Everything must depend on whether there are sparks. I won't refrain from something I feel like doing".

Don't make any fucking rules, for fuck's sake?! If you don't go to bed on a first date, it's only because you don't want / a guy doesn't turn you on / you don't turn you on a guy enough, but fucking not because you have rules and you keep yourself from enjoying the excitement!
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What am I getting at? As usual - do what you want to do and you see that the other side also wants to do what you want to do and... it is not burdened with any emotional shit in your head. Why can't you approach this? Wouldn't life be more beautiful?
 
 Sex connects, but does not create a lasting bond  

 The other way around, so don't think you're gonna stop the guy and build a relationship through sex on your first date. There is no such possibility - it is in you that sex creates a bond, then you give out more oxytocin. A guy's bond and attachment creates something other than sex (and in part, it certainly does), so don't ever treat the bed as a way to attract a guy to yourself.

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Monday, November 9, 2020

How to pick up a girl being ugly



If you aren't so attractive in appearance that the girls turn their heads behind you, you need to make up for it a little bit and make up for it in other fields. I've written a lot about it and I'll probably write even more about male attractiveness in the future. But what if you really are the ugly equivalent of a fat girl with a moustache? The abyss of despair appears when you look in the mirror in the morning? Do not cry in your pillow. Don't put out your spirit! Dr. Uwo will help you. Do you have big outgoing ears? Low growth? Nose that is clockwise? Nondescript face? Generally you are ugly as the night (or like me) and you want to get a beautiful woman? Every now and then I see a beautiful woman on the street with an ugly guy. https://www.4shared.com/u/9oTEggCm/maxikaz19.html


1. behave ATTRACTIVE.

Never behave like an unattractive, ugly guy who has a grudge against the whole world that women prefer more handsome than him. A woman doesn't give a shit about your pretensions. And your way of thinking from the level of deprivation repels her. She subconsciously feels that if women don't want you (they prefer others), then there is a MERE reason behind it.  It is much better if you tease a girl that "she treats you only like a sausage with feet and wants you only for one". Alternatively, say what I "know, you want to use me only for my amazing personality, yes?!". When she laughs at it, you will be 5 steps closer to a kiss with her. So how to behave attractively? To start with, you need to know what attractive male qualities they are and how to communicate them (body language + words). There is a little bit about it on the blog and how to talk about it is in the Secrets of Seduction with Words guides. Attractive male characteristics are described in detail in PPS3. https://www.buzzfeed.com/hotnudes

A little bit of knowledge for the beginning you have here in video recordings and webinars:  Touch part 2, Touch part 3, Invisible Touch - webinar, webinar Sexual Self-Certainty

It helps to have a strong inner game - stable beliefs about yourself and your value. And building it on your personality and skills, because not on your appearance. Those ugly men I've seen with beautiful women (not only the one in the mirror every morning) always had the same set of strong beliefs e.g. "What I am now is enough", "I am the best choice a woman can make", "whatever doesn't happen - I can do it", "maybe I don't look like Brad Pitt, but nothing can stop me from pursuing success/women". Itd.  And that sort of thing 🙂. https://www.instructables.com/member/lonelymilf/

Skillfully Escalate the Touch.

You never know 100% how a woman will behave, but you will lose her for 1000% if you don't even try to touch her, kiss her, tell her that she turns you like a kilo of grass 😉 etc. This mistake is made even by the intermediate ones.  Most normal men simply do not escalate the touch enough.  I'm talking about normal guys, not degenerates and persecutors. Unfortunately, we are raised by parents and mainstream on those who are afraid to talk to strangers, afraid that telling a girl that you're turning you on, offends her automatically, touching her on a date is disrespectful and trying to kiss her is almost harassment.
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But this is one of the necessary elements to get the woman and not land in the FRIENDED zone.

And all my (and not only my) field experiences show that touching a woman in the RIGHT way and in the RIGHT MOMENT, more effectively moves knowledge in a more love-sexual direction.  Please address your complaints to the Creator, who programmed our biology in this way. https://www.goodreads.com/user/show/124297150-casual-dating-online

It is even more important when you are not handsome, i.e. when you are ugly.

Being ugly you naturally have a better chance of falling into friendzone with a girl.  Therefore every way to avoid it is good. It is not about catching a woman or brutally crossing her borders. It is about showing yourself as a sexual, masculine and self-confident guy who gracefully develops your acquaintance in a natural way and the way he touches a woman is a foreshadowing of what will happen in bed.
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A good escalation of touch and feel is one of the most important tools in the arsenal of ugliness. Touching a woman in an accepted, at first funny way, then flirting, and finally sexual - it leads both of you from the station with the words "Hello" through the station "Sexual arousal" to "Her screams in the bedroom". Ufff, it got romantic

Saturday, November 7, 2020

Dating online - worth it?


More and more people are looking for the other half on the Internet. Researchers are explaining how to do this so as not to make mistakes and avoid disappointment.
Monika, a 40-year-old journalist, started using dating portals after a painful divorce. Although she was busy filling out personality tests, she still found narcissistic or primitive men. Usually after the first exchange of e-mails she cut off contact. When her son opened her account on Tinder, she made an appointment with the pilot and the head of an American company. The men, though fantastic, did not hide the fact that they have permanent partners abroad and are looking for romance in Poland. Fortunately, Robert from the Netherlands came into her range (up to 100 km). After a few months of acquaintance he found a job in Warsaw, today they are one year after the wedding.

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More and more people are looking for such a happy ending. However, in order to get there, you have to work hard and avoid some basic mistakes. Fortunately, dating on the Internet has already been taken care of by scientists. Their research and conclusions indicate how to proceed to bring the case to a happy end. A lot is known about the art of dating by the American cultural anthropologist Jean Smith. In her book "Flirtology", which has just been published in Poland, she notes that in the last 10 years there has been a huge increase in the number of users of dating portals. In the United States alone 50 million people have used them at least once in their lives. However, only 5 percent of this group married a partner they met on the Internet. Why is it so difficult to succeed there, when there is no shortage of people willing, there are more and more applications and portals that satisfy more and more sophisticated needs, and their creators ensure that thanks to intelligent algorithms you can find the perfect partner? Here you can find one https://about.me/lonelybabes

Jean Smith explains that dating over the Internet is not a charity, but a powerful business, worth billions of dollars. "The idea behind internet dating is that people can't find a partner for themselves, they just pay a subscription to keep looking. A large proportion of internet dating enthusiasts never
She did not go on a real date with a person she met online," she writes in "Flirtology".

So what should we do to not waste our time, take advantage of the opportunities offered by the Internet and not fall into the traps lurking there? "When we meet people, everyone tries to behave as well as possible and do what they should, so they feel confused when nothing comes out of it. And I can see very clearly that it would be enough to do one thing differently to get a satisfactory result. Flirting is a learned behavior, so you can master the art," Smith says. https://www.twitteraudit.com/CesarJung1
 
A TRAP - DON'T BELIEVE IN THE COMPATIBILITY OF PROFILES

E-respondence is the second most popular way of establishing relationships, according to the research of psychologists from the University of Rochester in New York. Over 100 million people use Tinder alone.
Polish dating sites, and there are almost 80 of them, are visited by more than 4 million Poles each year (PBI/Gemius Megapanel data). More than half of the young people in our country look for acquaintance online - determined Professor Zbigniew Izdebski. - Dating portals tempt with their illusory anonymity, time saving and the possibility to choose - hundreds of profiles are at your fingertips - says Bianca-Beata Kotoro, psychosexologist, director of the Beata Vita Institute of Psychological-Psychosexual Therapy and Training.

During the time you have to spend getting to know one person at a party, you can watch a hundred profiles on the Internet. The choice is to be facilitated by personality questionnaires, based on which the algorithm combines into pairs. Global giants such as eHarmony, OKCupid or Match.com employ psychologists, sociologists and computer scientists who create advanced tests (some of them even contain 400 questions). They check the match in terms of education, weight, height, hobbies, ideas of a perfect relationship and even communication style. High compatibility of profiles is to guarantee finding the other half.

Although in theory this solution seems brilliant, in practice it usually fails," believes Professor Dan Ariely from Duke University, a behavioral economist studying consumer behavior. - It is crazy to believe that eye color or height can be the basis of a lasting relationship. People are not digital cameras, which
can be described with such parameters as size - says Prof. Ariely. - They resemble rather wine. When you try it, you can describe its taste, but someone who has not tried it will not understand much of it. However, you know whether you like the wine or not. Whether you like it or not is made up of so many nuances that it is difficult to put into statistics.

FORK IN THE ROAD - CONSIDER WHO YOU ARE LOOKING FOR

The point is that many people do not know what they expect from their partner. Appearance is important, especially for men, who spend 65% more time watching photos than reading profiles - proved the AnswerLab experiment (eye movements of match.com and eHarmony.com users were followed). Other key criteria are age, weight, height and income. Women are looking for tall and rich partners and men for slim women, according to research by Gunter J. Hitsch of the University of Chicago and Professor Dan Ariely. Their team analyzed thousands of profiles in terms of weight, height and income.

It turned out that lower height or higher weight of men can compensate for a thicker wallet. The analysis of 150 thousand profiles according to wedwoje.pl shows that more than half of the respondents do not have specific preferences in terms of figure. Restrictive adherence to the adopted criteria is therefore unreliable. - The men claim that they would like to have a slim partner, but wouldn't they make an appointment with Monica Bellucci, who has full shape?

A similar mistake is made by women when determining their partner's height (e.g. 170 cm). This way, the algorithm can throw a cool guy 3 cm shorter from the list, whose other features, such as a sense of humor or intellect, compensate for the lower height - says Bianca Kotoro. - Women's preferences are influenced by hormones, among others. Studies show that during ovulation they prefer macho, strong and dominant men, while they would like to build a relationship with a caring partner and open to dialogue - says Dr. Konrad Maj, social psychologist from the University of SWPS, dealing with dating psychology, among others.

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A BLIND ALLEY - DO NOT LIE ABOUT YOURSELF

Another mistake we make when looking for a partner on the Internet is simple - we lie about ourselves. Prof. Catalina L. Tom from the University of Wisconsin-Madison, Prof. Jeffrey T. Hancock from Cornell University and Prof. Nicole B. Ellison of Michigan State University analyzed profiles of 80 people and then met with them, photographed, checked their age, weighed and measured. They showed that as many as four-fifths of the respondents gave false information about themselves. On average, women subtracted four kilograms from each other, while men subtracted a kilogram (but were willing to add a few centimeters to their height). They cheated to fit in with the expectations of potential partners. They thought that when it comes to the meeting, the extra kilos will not matter. This is a mistake. The disappointment that people lied to are often too strong to continue the relationship. The same applies to the coloring of profiles. - Their descriptions are usually very vague, and the people who read them add too much, filling in the gaps with their imagination - explains Prof. Dan Ariely.

- Just because someone writes that they like music, even the same band as us, does not mean that we will have a great time together at the concert - says Dr. Konrad Maj. And he laughs that dating portals are full of athletic enthusiasts of sailing and horse riding. But in reality, the yacht is a friend and sport is limited to watching the matches. No wonder that people start to be fascinated by someone who exists only in their imagination. Why are we so focused on finding the most suitable partner? - Similarities attract each other, but this rule has its limitations. Would you really like to spend your life with your twin? For a relationship it is important that people sometimes complement each other or differ. Mismatches in certain spheres activate our emotions, lead to discussion and make us see our partner as an individuality that intrigues or fascinates us.

STRAIGHT TO THE POINT - DO NOT CHAT FOR MONTHS, MEET

Another mistake? Only every third virtual acquaintance ends with a meeting in real life - according to the research of Pew Research Centre. - Some people are able to chat for months, and when a meeting is proposed, they panic and even break up the acquaintance. They would like to have a partner, but preferably at a distance - says Bianca-Beata Kotoro. - Meanwhile, when analyzing a profile or even sending text messages, we do not have access to key information such as smell, voice timbre, gait. We do not know how we will be in bed with each other," Kotoro enumerates. The psychologist encourages us to make an appointment for coffee as soon as possible and ask the right questions on a date instead of falling in love for months on the Internet.


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In the lecture titled "The psychologist is a good friend. In the lecture entitled "On dating & relationships" Prof. Ariely jokes that in most people the first meeting usually resembles a CV review. They are interested in things that do not lead to deepening the relationship, asking about school or siblings. Dr. Konrad Maj explains that by keeping to safe topics, whether consciously or unconsciously, we avoid conflict because we are afraid that we will enter into a dispute that will destroy the building of the tower.